When your first daughter reaches their teenage years, it can be an exicting time.  Teenagers have to deal with a lot of issues such as dating, puberty, bullying and school.  Although a fun time, it can also be stressful to watch your child grow and change.  Here are some tips for raising your teenage daughter.

Don’t Be Afraid to Talk About Sex

Unforunately, many girls are having sex or fooling around at younger ages.  It is important to be open with your teen daughter to make sure that she knows all of the facts.  It is best for your teen lo learn acurate facts from you than to hear things from their friends and the media.  Also, establishing this kind of relationship will make your daughter feel comfortable to talk to you if she is ever in trouble or needs advice.

Remember to Keep Your Relationship Strong

Although your teen will begin to pull away from the family and want to spend more time with friends and boyfriends, it is important to still keep a solid bond with them.  Even if it is only once or twice a month, carve out a mother-daughter pedicure day or a father-daughter dinner day.  This bonding ritual will help you to keep a connection with your child.  It also gives your daughter an oppurtunity to share information about her life with you in a comfortable setting.

Give YourTeen a Chance

If your teen is showing responsible behavior such as getting good grades and coming home on time, it is important to give them a chance to spread their wings.  Extend their curfew an extra fifteen minutes or allow them to hang out with new friends.  Trust your teen until they give you a reason not to.  Keeping your teen locked in the house will only make them want to rebel more.  If your teen is hanging out with a new group of people, allow your daughter to have some of the friends over the house so you can meet them.

 

 

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